tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post9127998391127334741..comments2023-10-12T05:50:45.076-04:00Comments on This can't be it: And considerately killing me...kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01982496933879300175noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-62651007247281301132008-01-14T00:06:00.000-05:002008-01-14T00:06:00.000-05:00Kel - I am so sorry that I am only now posting thi...Kel - I am so sorry that I am only now posting this - It may seem odd, but you have been on my mind much the past few days... maybe you can relate, but I sometimes do not feel adequate to the task of offering a comforting word, one that you will know is sincere... But I truly am sincere in hoping that this all works out for the best, that your son will seek help, and that you will know that you are not alone...<BR/><BR/>What you are doing, what I am doing, I believe is the right thing - We love them, and we wait until they are ready for us to help them<BR/><BR/>~Hugs~Athenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14824831201121143893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-89420937815853297392008-01-09T17:11:00.000-05:002008-01-09T17:11:00.000-05:00Kel, I'm not a mother so I can't begin to pretend ...Kel, I'm not a mother so I can't begin to pretend I know how deeply this goes for you and how hard it has to be to let him go.<BR/>Just dont ever give up hope for yourself; for him. There is ALWAYS hope, Kel. Hope from a distance in your case.<BR/>I am sorry you are going through. I care about you and will continue to keep you in my prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-88748586544902956042008-01-08T14:03:00.000-05:002008-01-08T14:03:00.000-05:00I'm sorry. If your son does not realize that this ...I'm sorry. If your son does not realize that this should be a wakeup call then you are doing the right thing. When my sister was a day away from death (according to the doctor) because of her drug use we thought that would change her. You never know what makes people finally understand how serious their problem is.Jaquihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07400678296675379228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-84467111769046168122008-01-08T13:04:00.000-05:002008-01-08T13:04:00.000-05:00Prayers for him and you... One day at a time.Prayers for him and you... One day at a time.Beth Blairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11318506551967913628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-32063441101697441282008-01-08T09:27:00.000-05:002008-01-08T09:27:00.000-05:00Kel, I have been down this road more than once a...Kel,<BR/> I have been down this road more than once and it is one the most difficult and horrible things a mother can experience. What makes it worse is there is not one damn thing you can do about it. I have seen far too many young people lose their lives to drugs. I have seen my own son on the edge of death. Just know I am with you in spirit and in thought and that I will keep your son in my heart.Patricia Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07231036049535477708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-18360729593496517662008-01-07T21:47:00.000-05:002008-01-07T21:47:00.000-05:00Kel, you are a brave lady. Letting your son go is ...Kel, you are a brave lady. Letting your son go is hard but the best thing for you and ultimately for him. He will do what he chooses and no one can stop that. You are doing something good for yourself by taking care of yourself and not buying into the insanity of the whole thing. I am sorry that this has been the start to your year. Maybe it will turn into something good....Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-15112411785848419312008-01-07T16:22:00.000-05:002008-01-07T16:22:00.000-05:00I sympathize with you on this one Kel.I have heard...I sympathize with you on this one Kel.I have heard those words and attitude from the back of an ambulance with my son.It scared me to the core.Then as the ambulance was driving towards the hospital at the crack of dawn..the paramedic driver quietly said to me that he was like my son once.<BR/><BR/>I had to let my son go too Kel.<BR/>But not before reassuring him I believed in him with all my heart that he deserved to be well.And he was still a valued member of our family.Just not high or drunk.<BR/><BR/>There are no easy solutions here.<BR/>I know you are in a tough spot in your heart and life right now my friend.I so encourage you to find some support and stick with it.<BR/>Your life is worth it - just like your sons.<BR/><BR/>xoTabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-76721084529895663552008-01-07T15:52:00.000-05:002008-01-07T15:52:00.000-05:00I am so sorry.I am so sorry.MeloMealshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16957104951513167524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-20900001919510451652008-01-07T14:21:00.000-05:002008-01-07T14:21:00.000-05:00Im sorry this is happening to your family. I wish ...Im sorry this is happening to your family. I wish we could shake this illness out of people. Its so deceptive that it almost seems like we can talk sense to them and it even seems like they get it sometimes. But insanity is just insanity. Its nobodys fault. I hope some stroke of luck will lead your son out of this maze he is trapped in. So many stars have to align for an alcoholic or addict to get clarity and then willingness but it does happen. It seems like you realize that detachment and acceptance and all that alanon stuff is the way for you to go so Im happy that you have an idea of how to cope with this stuff. I believe I can live a serene and happy life no matter what happens around me even when it seems so far away and impossible to get there. I believe that for you too.John Donationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03758722152465803834noreply@blogger.com