tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post8515438253206852890..comments2023-10-12T05:50:45.076-04:00Comments on This can't be it: Acting on your best behavior, Turn your back on Mother Nature...kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01982496933879300175noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-86113129337280817662009-05-20T22:52:53.035-04:002009-05-20T22:52:53.035-04:00It's really hard when the place that is supposed t...It's really hard when the place that is supposed to be safe and comforting, your home, becomes a place of negativity. It's hard to find the best way to move forward becuse you can get so caught up in the present that it drains a good deal of energy needed to plan for the future. <br />It sound like your Mom is scared of having the familiar situation of the past few years change. As understandable as that is, you need to make sure your happiness is your first priority.<br />So easy to write; so difficult to live out. I am in a similar situation with my boyfriend/roomate. I really hope you and your Mom can find some common ground and both be happy in the long run.<br />NellieNHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17466126254034203883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-56265010822326817662009-05-15T11:27:00.000-04:002009-05-15T11:27:00.000-04:00I agree with Cat that it's fear...don't take in th...I agree with Cat that it's fear...don't take in the negativitiy, she is putting it out there, but you don't have to pick it up...thank goodness.<br /><br />Much love to you, hang in there..<br />GAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15127343815869529555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-86374724164806137502009-05-14T20:43:00.000-04:002009-05-14T20:43:00.000-04:00I don't accept unacceptable behavior such as screa...I don't accept unacceptable behavior such as screaming and yelling anymore. I've drawn a line and have that as a boundary. Just some thoughts.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-38908299619911052112009-05-14T19:55:00.000-04:002009-05-14T19:55:00.000-04:00You have given the best years of your life to help...You have given the best years of your life to help take care of your father. You don't deserve no matter how far in the bag she is to be treated cruelly. You deserve to have a life dear friend. I hope either you and your mother can come to some understanding, or you can start over with someone who cares. (Hugs)IndigoSage Ravenwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17143502548162174269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-85167343551473099042009-05-14T18:48:00.000-04:002009-05-14T18:48:00.000-04:00This sounds like a really tough situation. All I ...This sounds like a really tough situation. All I can do is echo Cat's sentiments. Hang in there. It will work out one way or another.Ginhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927048986907155785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-90931633482025635272009-05-14T16:50:00.000-04:002009-05-14T16:50:00.000-04:00Kel - fear leads to the dark side - didn't you see...Kel - fear leads to the dark side - didn't you see star wars? <br /><br />All joking aside I have found that fear is what fuels my hottest fires to burn and I spend so much energy on fearing that I forget to live...<br /><br />hang in there.Wait. What?https://www.blogger.com/profile/16914656489970904052noreply@blogger.com