tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post5220891399292410720..comments2023-10-12T05:50:45.076-04:00Comments on This can't be it: Your not in love with someone else, you don't even love yourself...kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01982496933879300175noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-51988100742627910522007-09-03T11:58:00.000-04:002007-09-03T11:58:00.000-04:00Just stopping by to drop you off a bundle of love ...Just stopping by to drop you off a bundle of love n hugs..xo TabTabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-33607163753504275052007-09-03T09:53:00.000-04:002007-09-03T09:53:00.000-04:00Hi Kel. I haven't been able to participate much in...Hi Kel. I haven't been able to participate much in the blog world in the past month, but I've thought of you often. You know, as sad as this post is, I think it holds a lot of maturity. You've come a long way. Just keep looking, and I think you'll see there really is a light at the end of the tunnel. Just know that this blogging buddy is there with you in that tunnel. I believe in you.<BR/><BR/>Just keep trudging.Judithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-28494678959242546032007-09-03T03:16:00.000-04:002007-09-03T03:16:00.000-04:00I stumbled across your blog and this post touched ...I stumbled across your blog and this post touched me. That insecurity of not finding someone who is right for you is just that. Insecurity. I felt the same way when I knew it was time to go (albeit not for the same reason). 9 years later I am with my perfect mate (4 years now). It wasn't until I had truly figured out 'me' and what I needed/wanted and wasn't willing to settle. After 5 happy single years, I am with my best friend. We live, work and love together every day, even if at times we want to strangle one another. That's normal. And that thing about divorced men; it's true in many cases, but not all. And you just can't spend too much time worrying on that. Believe and it will happen. Happiness, I mean...~e~https://www.blogger.com/profile/08257768214255917574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-13561392681065063772007-09-03T00:57:00.000-04:002007-09-03T00:57:00.000-04:00Regarding the divorced men luxuriating vs. the div...Regarding the divorced men luxuriating vs. the divorced moms at home: No, it's not universal, but it's far more widespread than just your little circle. I see it all the time. It ain't fair. But as one friend of mine says, "Of course, life isn't fair; if it were fair, it would be called <I>fair</I>, not <I>life</I>!"Namenlosen Trinkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15233104063859778659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-20158901391374864842007-09-01T02:21:00.000-04:002007-09-01T02:21:00.000-04:00I'm so glad that I have found another Al-Anoners b...I'm so glad that I have found another Al-Anoners blog!! I look forward to reading more of your blog. Hang in there your not a failure!!<BR/><BR/>~CookieMMauraW.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16665205559297720944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-74040726849250091162007-08-31T17:07:00.000-04:002007-08-31T17:07:00.000-04:00These feelings are all part of your new journey in...These feelings are all part of your new journey in exploring the amazing woman behind these peoples lives.You are now stepping into your own and those people you love and loathe,well,it is only natural the feelings need to be dealt with from within you so you can move on.<BR/>It does take time but may find it won't always be so painful my friend Kel.<BR/>I think you are a beautiful human.<BR/>Thank you for sharing.<BR/>xoTabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-8145001494976526592007-08-30T22:11:00.000-04:002007-08-30T22:11:00.000-04:00Kel, I wish you luck and love on your new journey....Kel, I wish you luck and love on your new journey. It will all work out the way it's supposed to in the end.Redhead Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704372680864534271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-91655752947015947812007-08-30T16:24:00.000-04:002007-08-30T16:24:00.000-04:00It is painful to think about a life together being...It is painful to think about a life together being over. I sometimes just wish that there weren't all the cumulative years that were so bad. Maybe then, we would have a chance to love each other in that special way again. I'm trying but it is so very hard to resurrect those old feelings from ashes.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-12729617322711706332007-08-30T14:18:00.000-04:002007-08-30T14:18:00.000-04:00Glad I found your blog. Good luck with all the thi...Glad I found your blog. Good luck with all the things that are going on in your life.bubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06061694804254423837noreply@blogger.com