tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post4825263083695204754..comments2023-10-12T05:50:45.076-04:00Comments on This can't be it: So here it is, another chance; wide awake you face the dayy...kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01982496933879300175noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-68197746647329470132007-07-11T09:24:00.000-04:002007-07-11T09:24:00.000-04:00Kel, maybe when you start to feel alone which is d...Kel, maybe when you start to feel alone which is different from lonely, you need to get to a meeting or call your sponsor. Aloneness indicates selfpity for me and that's not a place that I need to go. I call my sponsor when that starts to happen.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-86930706230022530522007-07-10T17:43:00.000-04:002007-07-10T17:43:00.000-04:00Yo chickie boomstand up dance aroundgive yourself ...Yo chickie boom<BR/>stand up <BR/>dance around<BR/>give yourself <BR/>a smack on the butt <BR/>say hello to your <BR/>sweet self and <BR/>see what the new day<BR/>brings<BR/><BR/>thinking about cha..<BR/><BR/>hope you are out of bed by now..<BR/>it is 2:45ishy ..my time..lol<BR/><BR/>xoTabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-67808918740474519732007-07-10T12:44:00.000-04:002007-07-10T12:44:00.000-04:00Stopping by to say hello and hope you are well.Thi...Stopping by to say hello and hope you are well.<BR/>Thinking of you,<BR/>ScoutAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-65425229226214136702007-07-10T07:23:00.000-04:002007-07-10T07:23:00.000-04:00You are grieving for what you lost. This is a natu...You are grieving for what you lost. This is a natural process in healing. You need to feel the grief so you can move on. I am in the procss of grieving over the loss of my son because like you I was there for him and did everything for him and now I am lucky if I get a phone call. He is punishing me for putting him out of the house. Of course if I did not put him out he would not be in rehab clean & sober today. Hang in there, Kel. We are all here for you.Patricia Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07231036049535477708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-5235452583830827332007-07-10T06:54:00.000-04:002007-07-10T06:54:00.000-04:00I agree with everyone here. Grieving is an alone p...I agree with everyone here. Grieving is an alone process. Just do it, go through it, and learn from it. It won't kill you, but you will start to understand more as time slowly passes.<BR/><BR/>Someone told me once that grief is like a flood. It covers everything and it seems so big and impossible. So you wait and live, and little by little the flood recedes. You can't see it happening because it's so slow. But it happens. And then the flooded landscape is revealed and you will be amazed at how good it looks, and how much better it feels. And how much more you know.<BR/><BR/>Be really good to yourself. Get a massage. Cry a little. Go for a walk. Buy an Ipod and listen to music everywhere.<BR/><BR/>This will pass.Dr. Cookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06804057652332749604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-27971529826356609972007-07-09T22:59:00.000-04:002007-07-09T22:59:00.000-04:00You are never alone. Sounds so cliche but it is t...You are never alone. Sounds so cliche but it is true. I crave being by myself. There is such peace in it. I will send peaceful thoughts your way.<BR/><BR/>Gwen~Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01301188057020591320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-44802494796031850042007-07-09T22:43:00.000-04:002007-07-09T22:43:00.000-04:00You know, it's funny, but you maybe need to learn ...You know, it's funny, but you maybe need to learn to like yourself well enough to enjoy your own company. Maybe you have been spending so much time making your life about other people, you've neglected discovering about you.<BR/><BR/>Just a thought. And ditto Scout's question about Al-Anon. I know you'd tried a meeting, but didn't care for it. Someone posted a comment that you might prefer the NA/AA meetings because it was still about the other people in your life and not about you. I thought that comment was rather insightful.<BR/><BR/>Good thoughts for you are headed your way,<BR/>JudithJudithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-76006198679439901202007-07-09T18:32:00.000-04:002007-07-09T18:32:00.000-04:00time and patience... Aloneness does suck the life ...time and patience... Aloneness does suck the life out of you... just remember you are never really alone.Beth Blairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11318506551967913628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-42559148220276803472007-07-09T16:45:00.000-04:002007-07-09T16:45:00.000-04:00I hear you Kel.It is like grieving some days isn't...I hear you Kel.<BR/><BR/>It is like grieving some days isn't it ? We need to catch our breaths and see what the new day brings us. <BR/><BR/>And you just watch Kel.While you are feeling blue today, I just know you are going through a very very important process in letting go.I have felt this.And one of these days you are going to wake up and find a new woman staring at you in the mirror..and perhaps a steamy sexy shadow behind the shower certain too...ppporroar..lol<BR/><BR/>So keep taking care Kel.<BR/>Feel what you need to feel.<BR/>But stay in touch with those you trust Kel.Including yourself.<BR/><BR/>Please know that so much of what you share , I can relate to from my heart.<BR/><BR/>Big hugs..you keep an opened mind.<BR/>Ya never know what your HP has in store for you..so keep those legs shaved and your chin up high..lol<BR/><BR/>As for the Prince.Never stop believing in him even when he is far away right now.Tabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-72577155589700791132007-07-09T15:25:00.000-04:002007-07-09T15:25:00.000-04:00Oh I hear you on this one. When I start to feel a...Oh I hear you on this one. When I start to feel alone versus lonely, I also get some toxic crap going.<BR/>I'm much better off now that I can find company through people in the program.<BR/>Did you ever start going to Al-Anon? There could be some wonderful women for you to enjoy time with there, kel.<BR/>You are always in my prayers,<BR/>ScoutAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com