tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post2271718865031329144..comments2023-10-12T05:50:45.076-04:00Comments on This can't be it: Theres a dark cloud following me.....kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01982496933879300175noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-63898151697061988512007-05-22T15:17:00.000-04:002007-05-22T15:17:00.000-04:00Hey chickie boom..how are you ?!!Send email soon.....Hey chickie boom..how are you ?!!<BR/>Send email soon..love Tabster xoTabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-27380478261547552232007-05-19T15:12:00.000-04:002007-05-19T15:12:00.000-04:00(((((kel)))) I hope better days lie ahead for you...(((((kel)))) I hope better days lie ahead for you. I know they do.Redhead Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704372680864534271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-87902110163487711402007-05-18T13:55:00.000-04:002007-05-18T13:55:00.000-04:00Your post moved me and made me think about how ter...Your post moved me and made me think about how terrible the disease is. It causes untold hurt and anguish. It truly is a family disease. I'm very sorry that this happened. But I am also glad that you recognized what was happening in your head. I also wish that none of the horrors happened.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-54821497357070245182007-05-17T19:54:00.000-04:002007-05-17T19:54:00.000-04:00Yeah, it can be hell wanting to fix someone yet kn...Yeah, it can be hell wanting to fix someone yet knowing that you can't. But, you're right... letting it go is necessary. Just make sure you don't let go of hope. Cuz as my fav. movie says: hope is a good thing... maybe the best of things.Beth Blairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11318506551967913628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-7973362506657390982007-05-17T16:31:00.000-04:002007-05-17T16:31:00.000-04:00Personally, I would think there was something wron...Personally, I would think there was something wrong with you if you weren't angered by AH's behavior. He's being a drunken ass. If you expect yourself to feel like a saint, then you are being too hard on yourself. The difference is how you respond to his behavior, not how you feel about it.<BR/><BR/>Being hurt and disappointed by him may be another story, but you can work on those things. But cut yourself some slack. You still need to figure out the proper boundaries. There will still be certain expectations you will have of AH, particularly regarding the rearing of your kids. I believe you have every right to make reasonable expectations of AH in that arena, and be angry when he does not hold up his end.<BR/><BR/>Chin up, my dear. You're right: you didn't cause it and you cannot cure it. But you can protect yourself and La Petit the best you can.<BR/><BR/>{{{Kel}}}Judithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-65585472275692275312007-05-17T15:18:00.000-04:002007-05-17T15:18:00.000-04:00We all wish we could cure this disease Kel but kno...We all wish we could cure this disease Kel but knowing we can't helps us to just accept that and do what we can to take care of ourselves for today.YOU are feeling what is perfectly understandable Kel.<BR/>Here's wishing you sunnier days ahead..and moving day even sooner!<BR/><BR/>love n hugs..<BR/>Tabster xoTabitha.Montgomeryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07462651710980805568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-51266237874379157042007-05-17T12:47:00.000-04:002007-05-17T12:47:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com