tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post114288764032498359..comments2023-10-12T05:50:45.076-04:00Comments on This can't be it: The Partial Programkelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01982496933879300175noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-1142990771359158172006-03-21T20:26:00.000-05:002006-03-21T20:26:00.000-05:00Me again. You sound a lot better, not so angry. ...Me again. You sound a lot better, not so angry. But - what are you doing about YOU? You need to take care of yourself. You cannot make the entire locus of your life your son. It is not fair to you or to him.Mary Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08156474205414127488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-1142973217153371352006-03-21T15:33:00.000-05:002006-03-21T15:33:00.000-05:00I think as humans we do whatever we can to help. S...I think as humans we do whatever we can to help. So if you have any questions I'll get to them as soon as I can. It can always be worse. and I'm glad that I've helped in some way. Get him into a sport, what does he like to watch and try taking it from there. I drank a few beers when I was 16 with my friends and smoked a few times, but the world was so much bigger than I and figured I would try and own it rather than it owning me. I think Mom needs a vacation!!!;)~A4O~https://www.blogger.com/profile/04650829941489145269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-1142894607104425832006-03-20T17:43:00.000-05:002006-03-20T17:43:00.000-05:00I read a few more enteries and come to find out yo...I read a few more enteries and come to find out your husband drinks. Well there's your answer. Your son is like a spunge, my mom used to smoke and guess what, so did I. My mom quit and so did I. We have more influence on people than we think, so either we can be leaders and lead by Example or followers and do what we can when we can. Your a great person and a strong mother who seems to be getting no support. If your yourself are getting no support, how is it that you think you can give it to somebody else? I think you need to surrender and release all negative things at this point and start fresh. Have you ever thought about getting a mentor over to the house for your son? Nothing really offical just some dude to come around to show you son a different perspective on life. Explain to your son that you don't know everything and nor does anybody else. Explain to him nobodys perfect but that doesn't mean you can make bad decisions. Explain to him he wills always be learning and there will never be a point when he can just relax and be happy with his life. Explain to him it's going to take al his might to do the right things and live a happy life. Explain to him the world doesn't want to help somebody who doesn't want to help himself. Explain to him the world isn't fair and we are the only ones who can make it fair. Explain to him he is a leader and what he's doing now is following. Explain this to him and explain it with a smile...~A4O~https://www.blogger.com/profile/04650829941489145269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19429534.post-1142889730378106572006-03-20T16:22:00.000-05:002006-03-20T16:22:00.000-05:00How old is your kid? Regardless of age he will fig...How old is your kid? Regardless of age he will fight an up-hill battle until he's about 28. Stay on him about everything, don't quit on him. what your doing for him now will help mold his feelings for the future and how he fells about it. He's trying to find himself in this world, trying to find out what may become of him. Remember, like you and I, he never asked to be here, so give him reasons and share all your knowledge with him. Knowledge of all things will allow him to grow... Take care and try not to worry all the time, life is an endless task...~A4O~https://www.blogger.com/profile/04650829941489145269noreply@blogger.com